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Parent Tips for Abuse Prevention

Posted by Sandra On January - 26 - 2015 ADD COMMENTS

7071152003-child abuse preventionThe American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) offers these tips for parents. Please feel free to use them in any print or broadcast story with appropriate attribution of source. Sexual abuse is a difficult subject for most people to discuss, and especially difficult for parents to discuss with their children. But as frightening as the topic may be, sexual abuse is a serious and, unfortunately, common problem that affects both boys and girls. In most cases, the person who sexually abuses a child is an adult or older child known to the victim, often an authority figure that the child knows, trusts or loves. The offender usually uses coercion and manipulation, not physical force, to engage the child.

 

What parents should know about child sexual abuse:

  • Most offenders are known to the child; they may be family members, relatives, friends, teachers, coaches, babysitters, and others in positions of authority.
  • Children most susceptible to sexual abuse have obedient, compliant and respectful personalities. They may be children from unhappy or broken homes, as these youngsters may be eager for attention and affection.
  • Children who are victims of sexual abuse can display many or few behavioral symptoms. They may withdraw from family or friends, display poor school performance, experience depression, anxiety, or exhibit aggressive and self-destructive behavior. Or they may not display any outward abnormal behavior.
  • Child sexual abuse often involves more than a single incident, and can go on for months or years.
  • Sexual abuse includes any kind of sexual act or behavior with a child, and includes activities involving genital contact as well as non-contact events- such as showing pornographic images to children, taking pornographic photographs of a child…

READ MORE HERE

 

New App Flags Predators

Posted by Sandra On January - 24 - 2015 ADD COMMENTS

SafeParent app helps parents recognize ‘red flags’

safeparentwebAccording to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, approximately one in six boys and one in four girls are sexually abused before the age of 18. And it may surprise you that 90% of those victims are molested by someone they know, according to the Justice Department. So what can parents do to protect their children from sexual predators? A new app created by Jeff Herman, child advocate and attorney for victims of sexual abuse, may be the answer. “Most children are groomed before they are sexually abused,” Herman told HLN. “The grooming process follows typical patterns that can be identified as red flags. After representing hundreds of victims of sexual abuse it became readily apparent to me that many kids can be protected from sexual abuse if their parents recognized these red flags and responded.” READ MORE HERE

State Statute of Limitations

Posted by Sandra On January - 22 - 2015 ADD COMMENTS

State Civil Statutes of Limitations in Child Sexual Abuse Cases

imagesStatutes of Limitations (SOL) is the time in which a lawsuit is initiated by an injured person or victim. In most cases, unless there is a special circumstance, the SOL begins to run from the date of the occurrence that caused the injury. Statutes of limitations are enacted by the legislature, which might extend or reduce time limits, based on certain restrictions.

According to the National Center for Victims of Crime, nearly every state has a basic suspension of the statute of limitation (“tolling”) for civil actions while a person is a minor. Many states have also adopted additional extensions specifically for cases involving sexual abuse of children. Extensions for filing civil actions for child sexual abuse are most often based upon the discovery rule — by the time the victim discovers the sexual abuse or the relationship of the conduct to the injuries, the ordinary time limitation may have expired. This “delayed discovery” may be due to emotional and psychological trauma and is often accompanied by repression of the memory of abuse. Child victims frequently do not discover the relationship of their psychological injuries to the abuse until well into adulthood — usually during the course of psychological counseling or therapy. They may not even discover the fact of such abuse until they undergo such therapy.

For information on the State Criminal Statutes of Limitations, please visit the National Association for the Prosecution of Child Abuse statutes.   VIEW STATE STATUTES HERE

State Statutes Search – CLICK HERE

A State-by-State Statute Comparison

Virtual Kidnapping On The Rise

Posted by Sandra On January - 20 - 2015 ADD COMMENTS

FBI warns ‘Virtual Kidnappings’ Are On the Rise

Handcuffs on laptop keyboardOn Tuesday, the FBI and NYPD released statements warning the public about the increased number in cases of ‘virtual kidnapping’. New York seems to be the latest area for this virtual scheme that has been used by criminals all across the country. The FBI reports that hundreds of New Yorkers have been victimized by this latest scam.

The virtual kidnapping scam has about four different versions that are used by con artists. The most common version involves a random person, receiving a call from a scammer, who will claim to be holding one of their relative for ransom. The con artist will usually demand a ransom between $600 – $900. The caller gives specific instructions where to wire the payment, which usually ends up in an account in Puerto Rico. Occasionally, they will call back and claim not to have received payment and demand more money. The callers usually call from one of the following zip codes: 787, 939 or 853. These zip codes are located in Puerto Rico. READ MORE HERE

20 Ways To Fight Trafficking

Posted by Sandra On January - 11 - 2015 Comments Off

images (1)Child victims of trafficking are recruited, transported, transferred, harbored or received for the purpose of exploitation. They may be forced to work in sweatshops, on construction sites or in houses as domestic servants; on the streets as child beggars, in wars as child soldiers, on farms, in traveling sales crews or in restaurants and hotels. Some are forced to work in brothels and strip clubs or for escort and massage services.

After first learning about human trafficking, many people want to help in some way but do not know how. Here are just a few ideas for your consideration.

1. Learn the red flags that may indicate human trafficking and ask follow up questions so that you can help identify a potential trafficking victim. Human trafficking awareness training is available for individuals,businesses, first responders, law enforcement, and federal employees.

2. In the United States, call the National Human Trafficking Resource Center at 1-888-373-7888 (24/7) to get help and connect with a service provider in your area, report a tip with information on potential human trafficking activity; or learn more by requesting training, technical assistance, or resources. Call federal law enforcement directly to report suspicious activity and get help from the Department of Homeland Security at 1-866-347-2423 (24/7), or submit a tip online at www.ice.gov/tips, or from the U.S. Department of Justice at 1-888-428-7581 from 9:00am to 5:00pm (EST). Victims, including undocumented individuals, are eligible for services and immigration assistance. READ MORE HERE

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THE ALICIA PROJECT

Posted by Sandra On January - 4 - 2015 Comments Off

Alicia Kozakiewicz: Lured, Kidnapped, Raped at 13

066912-5d4055d2-859c-11e4-b6d1-a55c994c6803ALICIA Kozakiewicz was lured by a sexual predator, raped, tortured and held against her will for four days. She was just 13 years old. How she survived that experience is incomprehensible, but her rescue is also equally unbelievable. While it may sound like the stuff of Hollywood films, the reality of what happened to her in January 2002 was a nightmare she can never forget. READ MORE HERE

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About the Alicia Project:

The Alicia Project aims to educate children, families, teachers, law enforcement agencies, and government and social agencies internationally through telling her personal testimony in classrooms, conferences, public forums and by focusing on internet safety, abduction, and child sexual exploitation. The Alicia Project raises awareness of, and effects change for, issues such as internet safety, missing persons, human trafficking, and child safety education. The aim of The Alicia Project is the prevention of predatory crime against children, online and off, through education, communication, and effective legislation. Ms Kozakiewicz is also working alongside the National Association to Protect Children (PROTECT), as well as working to secure the passage of my namesake, Alicia’s Law, in all 50 states across the US. To date, this law has passed in the states of Virginia, Texas, California, Idaho, Tennessee, and Hawaii. Alicia’s Law creates a dedicated, steady stream of funding, which provides training, boots on the ground, and resources to the internet Crimes Against Children (ICAC) task forces. For internet safety tips and more on this story visit The Alicia Project.

PTSD In Children & Teens

Posted by Sandra On December - 28 - 2014 Comments Off

downloadPosttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in children and adolescents occurs as a result of a child’s exposure to 1 or more major traumatic events. Such events can take many forms, including physical or sexual assaults, natural disasters, accidents, traumatic death or injury of a loved one, and emotional abuse or neglect. READ MORE HERE

PTSD in Children and Teens

PTSD – American Academy of Child and Adolescent

PTSD Symptoms in Children Age Six and Younger

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) – Helpguide.org

Post-traumatic stress disorder in children

Recovered Memories of Sexual Assault

Posted by Sandra On December - 27 - 2014 Comments Off

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?I Was Sexually Assaulted As A Child And Didn’t Remember for Years

Charles was sobbing violently when I came upon him in the woods. The sight of it still haunts me, all these years later. He was tall and blond, popular with the girls and one of the best all-around athletes. And I… I was the boy who liked comic books. We’d both spent multiple summers at that sports camp, passing our days in some form of competitive activity played out over acres of partially manicured Maine forest. We were 13 at the time, and I liked him, so when I saw him so visibly upset and so uncharacteristically vulnerable, I did what many adolescent boys might not have done: I leaned in. READ MORE HERE

Questions and Answers about Memories of Childhood Abuse

Trusting Your Memories of Sexual Abuse

Recovered Memories of Sexual Abuse

Memories & Abuse | Pandora’s Project

The Reality of Repressed Memories

State-by-State Child Deaths

Posted by Sandra On December - 18 - 2014 Comments Off

30528-enzThe Associated Press asked all 50 states, the District of Columbia and military services to provide information on children who died of abuse or neglect over a six-year span, even as authorities were investigating them or their families or providing some form of protective services. The overall tally for children who died under such circumstances was 786.

Here is the list of U.S. child deaths (6-year time span):

Alabama: 10 deaths, from fiscal year 2009 through 2013 (missing 2008)

Alaska: 4, from 2008 through 2013

Arkansas: 18, from 2008 through 2013 (missing 2009)

Colorado: 18, from 2008 through 2013

Connecticut: 13, from 2008 through 2013

District of Columbia: 4, from 2008 through 2013

Florida: 117, from 2009 through 2013 (missing 2008)

Hawaii: 1, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

Idaho: 0, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

Illinois: 33, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

Indiana: 7, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

Iowa: 2, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

Kansas: 10, from fiscal year 2008 through 2013

READ MORE HERE

 

Child Sex Offender Grooming

Posted by Sandra On December - 14 - 2014 Comments Off

The grooming process

child traffickingStudies of sexual offenders have found that deliberate tactics are often used to select victims and engage them in sexual abuse. This is described as the grooming process. Sexual offenders have often claimed to identify vulnerable children – for example, those who are less able to tell about the abuse, or who are unhappy or needy. There are a number of specific techniques that offenders use to mask their behavior prior to the assault, as well as during and after the assault. Many deliberately establish themselves as the kind of person you wouldn’t suspect to be a sex offender because they are “too nice” or an upstanding person in the community who helps a lot of people out. This is a powerful tactic as it allows offenders to become embedded in a community and be involved in a number of socially responsible activities such as youth groups, churches and schools, which can give the offender access to a number of potential victims without ever being suspected. This double life causes parents and others to drop their guards and to allow access to their children without suspecting anything. It is important to also note, that the majority of offenders are known to the family, and too often are family members. READ MORE HERE

Child Abuse Categories

Posted by Sandra On December - 12 - 2014 Comments Off

Types of child abuse

Little Girl and Scary Shadow on WhiteChild abuse is more than bruises and broken bones. While physical abuse might be the most visible, other types of abuse, such as emotional abuse and neglect, also leave deep, lasting scars. The earlier abused children get help, the greater chance they have to heal and break the cycle—rather than perpetuate it. By learning about common signs of abuse and what you can do to intervene, you can make a huge difference in a child’s life. Child abuse and neglect occurs in a range of situations, for a range of reasons. Children are rarely subject to one form of abuse at a time. Adults can experience a range of psychological, emotional and social problems related to childhood abuse.

Cyberstalking and Harassment Laws

Posted by Sandra On December - 8 - 2014 Comments Off

NATIONAL CYBERSTALKING AND CYBERHARASSMENT LAWS

img20121215175840607301218States have enacted “cyberstalking” or “cyberharassment” laws or have laws that explicitly include electronic forms of communication within more traditional stalking or harassment laws. In addition, recent concerns about protecting minors from online bullying or harassment have led states to enact “cyberbullying” laws. This chart identifies state laws that include specific references to electronic communication. However, other state laws may still apply to those who harass, threaten or bully others online, although specific language may make the laws easier to enforce. This chart classifies the various state laws addressing these three different types of online behaviors, as described below.

Cyberstalking.  Cyberstalking is the use of the Internet, email or other electronic communications to stalk, and generally refers to a pattern of threatening or malicious behaviors. Cyberstalking may be considered the most dangerous of the three types of Internet harassment, based on a posing credible threat of harm. Sanctions range from misdemeanors to felonies.

Cyberharassment. Cyberharassment differs from cyberstalking in that it may generally be defined as not involving a credible threat. Cyberharassment usually pertains to threatening or harassing email messages, instant messages, or to blog entries or websites dedicated solely to tormenting an individual. Some states approach cyberharrassment by including language addressing electronic communications in general harassment statutes, while others have created stand-alone cyberharassment statutes.

READ MORE HERE & SEE LAWS VIA EACH STATE

Social Media Bullying Crackdown

Posted by Sandra On December - 4 - 2014 Comments Off

Children’s e-Safety laws target social media and cyber bullying

downloadAUSTRALIA — The Federal Government has moved to crack down on cyber bullying with new legislation that targets social media sites and allows individual posts and offending material to be taken offline. The Parliamentary Secretary for Communications Paul Fletcher introduced the Enhancing Online Safety for Children Bill 2014 to parliament today with the goal of protecting the 20 percent of 8-to-17 year olds that he said have been victims of bullying online. The bill also sets up a Children’s e-Safety Commissioner to police cyber bullying and keep social media sites in check. READ MORE HERE

Policies & Laws | StopBullying.gov

A Brief Review of State Cyberbullying Laws and Policies

Mother: My Son Was Groomed Online, Molested by Four Men

Posted by Sandra On December - 1 - 2014 Comments Off

bbcd3e4afa2189ecf3231c0f73c0f54bYour child being abused is every parents worst nightmare, but for one couple, it was happening right under their nose in their own home. Ben was just 13 when he became the victim of online grooming and ultimately sexual abuse by four adult men. His parents, increasingly concerned about his reclusive behavior, only discovered what was happening when they overheard a late night phone call between Ben and his abusers. What followed is a harrowing tale of not only unwinding the psychological control the groomers had over their son, but a struggle to get support and to see the abusers convicted. READ MORE HERE

 

Bullying: Words Can Kill

Posted by Sandra On November - 26 - 2014 Comments Off

A “48 Hours” special on bullying in the digital age

download (1)“You’re judged constantly,” Johnny told CBS News correspondent Tracy Smith. “Whether it’s your orientation, your clothing, your — well, how you look, you know, everything.” Since he can remember, Johnny has always been made to feel different. “Growing up, you play sports. If you don’t play sports, then you’re weird or, you know, you just don’t fit in,” he explained. “And all through my life, that’s how it’s been. I don’t fit in.” For most of his life, Lisa Cagno says her son was interested in things most boys weren’t. READ MORE HERE

Bullying at School and Online | Education.com

School Bullying – Bullying Statistics

Online Bullying Doubling

Posted by Sandra On November - 15 - 2014 Comments Off

Online bullying doubles in a year

download (1)The number of children being bullied on the internet has doubled this year, with more than one in three now victims, research suggests. In a poll of 11 to 17-year-olds, 35% reported that they have experienced cyber-bullying – compared with 16% last year. Four in 10 said they had witnessed others being picked on online – almost double the 22% recorded last year. READ MORE HERE

How to Check if Your Child is Bullied Online

Signs Your Child Is Being Bullied Online

 

Social Media=Anti-Social Kids

Posted by Sandra On November - 12 - 2014 Comments Off

Social Media = Anti-Social Kids?

images (2)Computer technology reaches the hands of kids earlier and earlier, which means they’re also stepping into the world of social media. One survey found 95 percent of teenagers ages 12-17 use the Internet. And 81 percent of those use social networks. By law, children to be at least 13 years old to join many of them, too. Those early years are key to development as kids learn how to interact with each other and the world. So what is all of that social media time doing for them socially?

“I have Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.”

“I have Instagram and Snapchat.”

“I use mostly Snapchat and Instagram and Facebook.”

“Facebook, Instagram, normal stuff.”

READ MORE HERE:

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U.S. Child Sex Trafficking

Posted by Sandra On November - 4 - 2014 Comments Off

100,000 U.S. Kids Are Sold Every Year

b1200b425eea1a0702a57837433a9983Selling children into sex trafficking may seem like a remote issue, something that happens in far-off places where kids live in extreme poverty and their rights aren’t valued. But it’s happening right here, all over the United States. And a new campaign wants people to take note that more than 100,000 children are victims of sex trafficking in America every year. ECPTAT-USA, a nonprofit that works to stop the sexual exploitation of children, recently released an eye-opening PSA that demonstrates how little most Americans know about the rampant child sex trade. READ MORE HERE

VIEW “The Faces of Trafficking” Slideshow here

Updates On Product Recalls

Posted by Sandra On November - 3 - 2014 Comments Off

a_parents_recallsThe best way to ensure you will be contacted about product recalls is to fill out and send in the registration card that comes with your product when you purchase it. If you threw away the registration card or received the product from a friend or relative as a hand-me-down, you can still check the product for recalls. Visit the product manufacturer’s website or call the toll-free number listed on the product to check on possible recalls or expired products. You will need to know the product model number and manufacturer date, which is located on a sticker on the product. READ MORE HERE

VIEW CURRENT PRODUCT RECALLS

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Toy and Product Recall Finder (parents.com)

Top 5 Dangerous Recalled Child Products

New Crib Standards: What Parents Need to Know

 

Youth, Suicide and Bullying

Posted by Sandra On October - 22 - 2014 Comments Off

WHAT’S THE CONNECTION?

1294310-LThe role of bullying in suicide among our young people has been intensely scrutinized in both media and research. As the deleterious impacts on mental and physical health for both perpetrators and targets—suicide being the most severe—become more evident, calls for framing of the problem from a public health framework have increased. A scientifically grounded educational and public health approach to both bullying and suicide prevention is required. READ MORE HERE

Bullying, violence, intimidation and suicide

Who Are Child Molesters?

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2014 Comments Off

Who are Child Sexual Abusers?

Icouple-silhouettef trying to protect a child against child sexual abusers, one might want to know what to look for to indicate someone is a child predator. It would be convenient if we could spot a child abuser in a crowd to make sure they didn’t come anywhere near a child. Unfortunately, sexual abusers do not wear black hats nor can any one characteristic tell you who they are. Child abuse offenders often look, and act, just like everyone else. In fact, many times the family of the child has a relationship with the child abuser either because he (or she) is a family friend or because he is a member of the family. There is no single type of person that is a sexual abuser. Sexual abusers can be men or women of any age or socioeconomic status but are generally known by the child as only 10% of child sexual abuse cases are perpetrated by strangers. READ MORE HERE

What Causes Someone To Molest

Things You Need to Know About Child Molesters

Pedophile and Child Molester Statistics

A Profile of the Child Molester and Grooming Techniques

Helping Your Bullied Child

Posted by Sandra On October - 14 - 2014 Comments Off

What To Do When a Child Reports Bullying

imagesA bully can turn something like going to the bus stop or recess into a nightmare for kids. Bullying can leave deep emotional scars. And in extreme situations, it can involve violent threats, property damage, or someone getting seriously hurt. If your child is being bullied, you want to act to help stop it, if possible. In addition, there are ways to help your child cope with teasing, bullying, or mean gossip, and lessen its lasting impact. And even if bullying isn’t an issue right in your house right now, it’s important to discuss it so your kids will be prepared if it does happen. READ MORE HERE
What Professionals and Parents Can Do When a Child Reports Bullying

Bullying: Help your child handle a bully – Mayo Clinic

Support the Kids Involved | StopBullying.gov

 

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The Office of Sex Offender Sentencing, Monitoring, Apprehending, Registering, and Tracking (SMART)

Posted by Sandra On October - 9 - 2014 Comments Off

downloadThe Office of Sex Offender Sentencing, Monitoring, Apprehending, Registering, and Tracking (SMART) was authorized in the Adam Walsh Child Protection and Safety Act of 2006, which was signed into law on July 27, 2006. The responsibilities of the SMART Office include providing jurisdictions with guidance regarding the implementation of the Adam Walsh Act, and providing technical assistance to the states, territories, Indian tribes, local governments, and to public and private organizations. The SMART Office also tracks important legislative and legal developments related to sex offenders and administers grant programs related to the registration, notification, and management of sex offenders. READ MORE HERE

Dreamcatchers Resource Library – FREE eBooks

Posted by Sandra On October - 2 - 2014 Comments Off

DREAMCATCHERS RESOURCE LIBRARY

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Dreamcatchers for Abused Children has complied a comprehensive self-help resource library on all aspects of child abuse and other important child safety categories. They are offering these e-books for FREE as a PDF download to help further their mission by educating the public on child abuse awareness and prevention. These e-books offer vital information to parents, caregivers and educators depicting a variety of harmful behaviors directed against children. Each e-book will also offer important resources and pertinent toll-free numbers to the reader. All eBooks are available for immediate downloads. SEE BELOW FOR A COMPLETE LIST OF AVAILABLE EBOOKS!!

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  • FREE e-books available via LULU and AMAZON(coming soon!):
    Child Abuse
    Physical Child Abuse
    Child Sexual Abuse
    Verbal Abuse
    Child Neglect
    Child Abuse Effects
    Sexual Predators
    Intervention
    Report Child Abuse
    Child Protection
    Child Sex Abuse Prevention
    Stages of Recovery
    Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
    Shaken Baby Syndrome
    Family Incest
    Bullying
    Suicide Prevention
    Missing Children
    Family Abduction
    Child Sex Exploitation
    Rape Support
    Domestic Violence

CLICK HERE TO GO TO LULU TO DOWNLOAD

(coming soon) CLICK HERE TO GO TO AMAZON TO DOWNLOAD

20 Ways To Prevent Abuse

Posted by Sandra On September - 28 - 2014 Comments Off

What You Can Do

downloadUnrealistic expectations of parenthood, differences between what we want and what we actually have, a strained relationship with our marriage partner, too much to do and too little time, financial problems, drug abuse, alcoholism, and a history of being abused as a child are examples of problems that can cause parents to take out anger and frustration on their children. Even very loving parents can lose control to the point of child abuse. Here are some actions you can take to help children and their parents. READ MORE HERE

How to Prevent Child Abuse

10 Ways You Can Prevent Child Abuse | Childhelp

Chapter Seven: What Can Be Done to Prevent Child Abuse

 

 

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